Andre Lichtenberg

Two years after her 2003 divorce, Lisa Gentile took her daughter, Claudia, then 6, to Las Vegas. “Somebody told me how family-friendly Las Vegas had become,” says Gentile, 44, a legal specialist from Fanwood, N.J. The pair played by the pool and took a gondola ride at the Venetian, but the experience left Gentile feeling lonely for adult conversation. “When you travel with a child, children will always meet other children, but grown-ups do not necessarily meet each other,” she says.

On their next mother-daughter adventure, Gentile booked a getaway through Single Parent Travel (singleparenttravel.net). The Annapolis, Md., company offers group vacations for adults traveling alone with kids. Last summer, she and Claudia, now 9, spent a week at the Beaches Turks & Caicos resort ($2,767 for seven nights for one adult and one child, all inclusive) along with two dozen other single-parent families. “It was wonderful,” she says. Lisa and Claudia spent most days chatting and playing on the beach with other families, then meeting up again at night for dinner, a stroll or a variety show. They befriended a mother-daughter pair from their home state and have stayed in touch ever since. “The best part is the company,” says Gentile. “You’re meeting people you have something in common with, and their reason for being there is the same as yours.”

By Ron Givens

Sloe gin suffers from a smarmy reputation in the United States—harsh products used in saccharine drinks with lurid names. But now a world-class sloe gin has arrived from England, produced by one of the great gin distillers, Plymouth. Sloe berries—a kind of wild plum—are placed in straight gin, where they infuse the spirit with a wondrous combination of flavors (plum, blackberry, cherry, marzipan, cloves) and lend a rich burgundy color. Plymouth may revive the sloe-gin fizz as an amazing summer refresher (with or without the creamy froth that comes from using egg whites). For something different, try this delicately fruity cocktail:

Rent “Baby It’s You.” Twenty-three-year-old Rosanna Arquette burns up the screen in this story of a smart, ambitious Jewish girl from New Jersey and the sharkskin-wearing townie she loves. This honest, class-conscious depiction of high-school life in the late ’60s is one of John Sayles’s best, and least-known, movies—and it’s never been available on DVD before.

Hear “The Day Is Brave” by Brendan James. His compelling lyrics, soothing tenor and piano virtuosity make this debut album a stunning listen. Highlights include “Green,” a sweet musing on a former girlfriend ($13.98).

Surf pollinator.org. Due to bad environmental practices, pollinating species like bees and butterflies are being threatened. To encourage their proliferation, this Web site offers a downloadable planting guide that tells you which plants are best for encouraging a pollinator-friendly habitat.

By Elisa Mala

With hot climes and the prevailing philosophy of maintaining “cool hearts” (jai yen), Thailand is rife with contradictions. Nowhere is this more evident than in Bangkok, the nation’s capital and most populated city, a seemingly endless sprawl that is at once chaotic and calm. Ultra-modern commercial complexes overshadow some of the oldest Buddhist temples in the world, extravagant dance performances are as plentiful as gory kickboxing matches, sports cars compete with rickshaws for road space, and millionaires live blocks away from those who occasionally lack running water. Born and bred in Manhattan, NEWSWEEK’s Elisa Mala grew up speaking Thai, which kept her close to the culture from halfway around the world. Here are the sites and activities that capture her imagination on trips there.

VISIT the 150-foot-long reclining Buddha at Wat Pho (www.watpho.com) (near the river along Maharat Road, about 2/3 of a mile south of the Grand Palace). Bangkok’s oldest and largest temple also runs the city’s most respected Thai massage school, the Traditional Medical Pracitioners Association Center, so weary wayfarers can rest with a rubdown. An emerald Buddha sits at Wat Phra Kaew, one of Thailand’s grandest worshipping grounds. No surprise that it’s ornate – located on the grounds of the Grand Palace, it shares a home with the king. Dressing like royalty is hardly a requirement, but knees and elbows should be covered, and shoes removed before entering holy sites.

 
Asleep on the Job: Sleeping pods at the Empire State Building in New York
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By Tina Peng 

If Kristine Johnson gets fewer than seven hours of sleep at night, she barely makes it through the workday. So when that happens, Johnson, a 33-year-old San Francisco office manager, takes a nap. She’s slept in a lawn chair on the roof of her office, in a locked private bathroom (with just a pillow for support) and in her car. Johnson naps at work only twice a month, but it makes a noticeable difference, she says. “It makes me more alert and better able to do my job,” she says.

She’s in good company. In March, the National Sleep Foundation reported that 37 percent of Americans nap during the day. About a third of the people surveyed by the NSF said their workplace permitted naps, and more than a quarter said they would sleep at work if their employer let them. Worktime napping has seen enough of a popularity boost to fill its own business niche: Yelo, a New York City store that opened last year, has private rooms with sleep pods for quick naps ($15 for 20 minutes; yelonyc.com). Its founder, Nicolas Ronco, plans to expand to three New York City locations next year and then to other cities.

Naps do more than make up for lost sleep. They increase creativity, memory and alertness, says Sara Mednick, a professor of psychiatry at the University of California, San Diego, and author of “Take a Nap! Change Your Life.” A recent six-year study of 23,500 healthy Greek adults by the Harvard School of Public Health and the University of Athens Medical School showed that taking naps at least three days per week reduced coronary mortality by 37 percent.

Wine drinkers often turn to whites and rosés when the weather warms up. NEWSWEEK’s Tara Weingarten talked to master sommelier Rob Bigelow, the director of wine at the Bellagio Hotel in Las Vegas, about his favorite Italian varietals.

Nothing’s more American than a backyard summer barbecue. Why should we drink Italian wines with our burgers and hot dogs?
The acidity in some Italian wines means they are thirst-quenching and refreshing, in some cases as thirst-quenching as a cold beer.

We all know about wines from Chianti, but what are some of the less-known regions?
I love wines from Friuli, which is in the far northeast part of Italy. The Friulano grape is a white grape, more Sauvignon blanc-like in its austerity, more acidic, but still very aromatic. It’s crisp and fresh and perfect for summer dishes.

Rent “Persepolis,” Marjane Satrapi’s funny, defiant and unique animated vision of her tumultuous coming of age in Iran—with a hilarious detour to her exile in Vienna. It’s like no animated movie you’ve ever seen.

Surf livestrong.com, a health, fitness and lifestyle Web site launched by the Lance Armstrong Foundation and Demand Media Inc. Browse thousands of videos, articles and nutritional-food profiles, as well as networking with others trying to meet similar health and fitness goals.

Hear “Supreme Genius of King Khan,” by King Khan and the Shrines. Garage-rock shaman King Khan has been peddling his sweaty blend of psychopunk R&B through Europe for nearly 10 years. Now with their first stateside release, the man and his band are set to arrive on our shores—all blazing horns, churning organ and barbed-wire guitar. Yow! ($13.98)

DUMBO, Brooklyn Heights and Williamsburg, Brooklyn

By Zach Kussin

Not a Brooklyn native, but certainly a Brooklyn admirer, Zach Kussin has enjoyed his time exploring the DUMBO, Brooklyn Heights, and Williamsburg neighborhoods. Having spent time living, learning and working in Manhattan, he was glad to discover the nice change of pace these three areas offer. They are home to some of New York's finest restaurants, art galleries and neighborhood flair. Without the hectic crush of Manhattan in the background, visitors can easily spend their Brooklyn visits at peace.

Stroll through Brooklyn Bridge Park, an urban oasis that offers a pleasant escape from the traffic as well as a variety of outdoor events, including Thursday-night films on a giant silver screen. This summer, visitors can also enjoy The New York City Waterfalls, a series of art installations created by the internationally acclaimed artist Olafur Eliasson. The 90 to 120-foot tall waterfalls located at the Brooklyn anchorage of the Brooklyn Bridge, at the Brooklyn piers, at the shore of Governor's Island and at Pier 35 in Manhattan's Lower East Side will all be easily visible from Brooklyn Bridge Park's vantage point beginning on June 26.

Illustration: Chris Gash for Newsweek 

By Ashley R. Harris

Like so many women, Michelle La Rocca knew from childhood exactly what she wanted her wedding to look and feel like: Cinderella at the ball. But when the big day rolled around last summer, she was hit with a dose of reality. La Rocca’s Prince Charming didn’t have a king’s ransom in the bank, and she didn’t have a fairy godmother with a platinum AmEx. Clearly, paying for her dream wedding was going to require some creativity.

Taking inspiration from Cinderella’s mouse friends who fashioned a ball gown out of scraps, La Rocca began scurrying around for ways to fulfill her dream on the cheap. She sent out handwritten invitations instead of engraved ones. She scavenged the reception hall for leftover vases and candles to make table centerpieces. She and her fiancé bought candy in bulk to hand out as parting gifts and wrapped them with ribbon and a card. And even though she swore she would never skimp on her gown, La Rocca ultimately bought hers at— gasp!—a discount bridal store.

La Rocca is hardly the only budget bride. With the economy in the tank and the cost of the average wedding now a budget-busting $28,000, “people are doing more research and paying more attention to the details,” says Rebecca Dolgin, executive editor of The Knot (theknot.com), a wedding Web site. “The trend has moved away from everything-has-to-be-over-the-top, ” says Alicia Rockmore, CEO of lifestyle consultancy Buttoned Up (getbuttonedup.com), who says more and more couples are saving their money for the things that come after the big day, like houses and children. “The happiest day of your life should not be your wedding,” she says.

By Alicia Coffman 

Love the outdoors but hate sizzling in the sun? Parks are offering a cool alternative: night hiking. The benefits go beyond lower temperatures. “Animals, just like humans, take cover in the shade during the day because it’s so hot,” said Scott Egy, an interpretive ranger at Spring Mountain Ranch State Park in Blue Diamond, Nev. ($5 for entry; 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. in summer; parks.nv.gov/smr.htm). Depending on where you’re taking your hike, owls, deer, coyote, flying squirrels and bobcats are among the critters you might see. Most nighttime guides will also provide your family with information about the glistening constellations, along with the usual plant and animal information. Kids love it, too. “They’re so intrigued by the dark, and they don’t even realize they’re learning,” says Lynn McIntyre, director of community relations at Chattahoochee Nature Center in Roswell, Ga. (one 8 p.m. outing in June and one in July; $8 for nonmembers, $6 for members; chattnaturecenter.com). For more locations, contact your local parks department—if it doesn’t have a night hike scheduled, it may add one to its activities. Or check the Sierra Club chapter in your state (sierraclub.org). It posts hiking schedules under the Get Outdoors section on its Web site.

Want to take cash out of your house but afraid to borrow? A new crop of no-payment home-equity products is coming to market. The catch: you trade away a piece of your home’s future appreciation for cash now. Unlike traditional reverse mortgages, they are not structured like loans, the fees are lower and there’s usually not an age restriction. With a Rex Agreement (rex agreement.com), you can get $71,000 on a $500,000 home if you agree to split future changes in value 50-50 with Rex & Co. You have to stay in your home for at least five years. (If you want out sooner, penalties run as high as 25 cent of the original sum you received). If the value of your home goes up to $600,000, you’ll owe Rex $121,000 when you sell. That’s the original $71,000 plus $50,000 for half the appreciation. If the value falls to $400,000, you’ll pay $21,000; that’s the original amount minus half the depreciation. Other similar new products are EquityKey (equitykey.com) and My Equity Freedom (granderfinancial.com). Closing costs run as high as $4,000, so look before you leap.

Formidable Rough Rider

Rugged performance doesn’t mean it can’t be fun. Haul heavy stuff and navigate muddy, rocky terrain with the new Nismo version of the Frontier. The radical design is a product of Nissan’s motor-sports division, which has turned its attention on its pickup line.

Exterior Bed: The cab-mounted cargo-bed lamp illuminates the entire cargo area for easy use at night. A factory-applied spray-on bed liner allows for easy clean-up after dirty jobs.

Performance: Off-road performance shocks makes simple work of slushy and pockmarked roads. The formidable 281 foot-pounds of torque give excellent pulling power over moderate terrain.

Hear Jakob Dylan’s “Seeing Things.” With the Wallflowers on hiatus, Bob’s son steps out with his first solo album. The stripped-down guitar leaves plenty of room for lush, knowing vocals ($15.98).

Buy Physicians Formula Eye Shadow Duo. All the ingredients in these two-color sets are certified organic and made without parabens, harsh chemicals or synthetics. Better still, they’re reasonably priced and found in drugstores. And when you’re done, just toss in the recycling bin ($7.95).

Surf mozes.com, a free music-networking site that connects people to their favorite artists via cell phone. By joining a band’s “mob,” or mobile list, users can receive text-message updates on the new hit single or an upcoming concert.

By Kristin Luna 

Let's Roll: Metal Gear Solid 4
Konami Digital Entertainment

Grand Theft Auto IV and Wii Fit have scored headlines for shifting public opinions about videogames by deftly tackling the respective subjects that inspired them: crime and fitness. Now comes Metal Gear Solid 4 ($60; konami.com), whose major themes derive from a most unlikely place: President Dwight D. Eisenhower’s 1961 farewell address warning against the dangers of the military-industrial complex.

Well before last October’s hearings into possible abuses by real-world contractors like Blackwater, game designers became fascinated with the character of the hired gun, including such pro-mercenary titles as Raven Software’s Soldier of Fortune (2000) and Pandemic’s Mercenaries (2005). The appeal is perhaps obvious, but psychologically telling: placing you in the role of a merc gives you access to all the cool ordnance you’d find in the glut of Army games out there, but without having to deal with the annoying hierarchical command structure that comes with the armed forces.

MGS 4 isn’t the only game looking skeptically at the post-9/11 corporatization of military functions—clips and quotes from Eisenhower’s 1961 speech were prominently featured in the trailers for both Army of Two ($60; ea.com) and Cipher Complex (not yet released; ciphercomplex.com)—but it’s by far the most thoughtful, even if its premise is not particularly original. Yes, a villain from the previous games turns up in the Middle East with yet another plan for global domination and, yes, only your lone hero—the prematurely aging Solid Snake—can stop him. But creator Hideo Kojima clearly has more on his mind than a repeat of the hide-seek-and-shoot mechanics that have made him the master of the genre he calls “tactical stealth action,” which emphasizes patience and strategy over the simple pleasures of run-and-gun.

By Joan Raymond 

It’s getting hot out there, so don’t forget to give your pooch some extra H2O. Doggie dehydration is a real issue in the summer, especially for active canines who live to take long treks with their active humans. The good news is that you don’t have to share your designer electrolyte and vitamin water with your pet. A healthy dog is going to excrete those items at the nearest fire hydrant, says Dr. Gregory Hammer, president of the American Veterinary Medical Association in Schaumburg, Ill. Pooches need about one ounce of plain water per pound of body weight every day, and more when they are active and hot. Discolored gums signal dehydration. So does loose skin—unless you own a Shar-Pei. For dogs on the go, check out handi-drink.com, which features a belt clip, carrying strap and a built-in tray ($6.99 for the 9oz size, $7.99 for 17oz and $9.99 for 25oz). Discriminating dogs might like the Drinkwell Hydro-Go, with a refillable canteen that can also hold food ($19.99 for 36oz; thepetstore online.com). You can even make your own portable doggie bowl free of charge, with plastic sheeting, aluminum foil and some scrap wood (www. instructables.com/id/Foldable Portable-Superlight-DoggyWater-Bowl-0/). That should leave you some extra bucks for doggie treats.

Judging from its size and low model number, you’d guess the 135i is an economy Bimmer. But auto enthusiasts know otherwise. This is BMW’s very well priced, rip-it-up performance car. Think of it as the naughty little brother to the marque’s own M3.

Engine: A very able 300-horsepower motor belies the car’s sporty heritage. The six-speed automatic, which is somewhat fuelefficient, comes with steering-wheel-mounted paddle shifters.

Interior: The three-spoke leather-wrapped steering wheel has hands-free Bluetooth phone controls. And the eight-way adjustable front seats are comfy.

 By Temma Ehrenfeld 

If you care for the environment but don’t want a wedding that screams “I’m green,” add these simple ideas to your festivities:

• Arrange ahead of time to have a food-rescue organization like secondharvest.org pick up your untouched entrees.

• Instead of exotic cut flowers that re-quire shipping and refrigeration, Valerie Edmunds of greeneleganceweddings.com suggests potted plants that guests can take home. Or use local, in-season blooms.

• Donate your wedding dress to making memories.org. Bridesmaids can donate gowns to charities that recycle them as prom dresses (try glassslipperproject.org or donatemydress.org).

By Michelle Jana Chan 

A wave of hotel openings across the Andes means the classic Peruvian circuit is no longer just for backpackers. With the dollar still strong there, you can even opt for some luxury.

Casa Andina Private Collection, Arequipa Check in to this stylish urban retreat near the baroque convents and 16th-century villas in Peru’s loveliest colonial town (doubles from $199 with breakfast; casa-andina.com).

Las Casitas del Colca Make a side trip to the Colca Canyon, twice as deep at the Grand Canyon, and stay at this luxurious outpost with hot plunge pools on each private terrace. Spot condors, fly-fish and bottle-feed baby alpacas (doubles from $500 full board, including activities; lascasitasdelcolca.com).

Inkaterra Machu Picchu After visiting the great Incan citadel, bed down at Inkaterra’s gorgeous villas and indulge in the spa’s coca treatment (doubles from $832 full board; inkaterra.com).

By Tina Peng 

Trying to keep Johnny from trading his apple for a bag of chips? A small subset of overachieving American parents have started sending their kids to school with bento boxes, packed meals that emphasize portion control and nutritional balance. The boxes meet guidelines set by Japan’s food pyramid: three parts grain (usually rice), one part meat and two parts vegetable—no junk food, no candy and as little oily, greasy food as possible. Deborah Hamilton of lunchinabox.net goes the extra mile by making faces out of cheese, and bunnies out of apple slices. But novices can easily jazz up sandwiches, pasta, salads and stews with toothpicks or colorful fruits and vegetables. “It’s just a compact, balanced, visually appealing lunch,” she says.

Buy traditional boxes at jlist.com and ichibankanusa.com, or use shallow plastic containers like the three-piece Lock & Lock ($6.99; heritagemint .com). Other useful accessories include silicone baking cups to use as dividers, and thermal containers, like the Nissan Stainless Steel Food Jar ($19.95; amazon.com).

Hear Emmylou Harris’s “All I Intended to Be.” This crisply sophisticated, sometimes solemnly tinged collection of originals and favorites of her fellow artists shows that Harris is still the stalwart songbird at the top of the roost ($18.98).

Rent “Heavy Metal in Baghdad.” Hipster American filmmakers Suroosh Alvi and Eddy Moretti plunge into bullet-riddled, paranoid Baghdad to chart the fortunes of Iraq’s only heavy-metal band, Acrassicauda, who are driven into exile in Syria.

See “End Game—British Contemporary Art From the Chaney Family Collection,” at the Museum of Fine Arts in Houston. The exhibition features major works of the radical London scene, from the Young British Artists movement of the 1990s (including Damien Hirst) to today’s avant-garde (mfah.org).

By Kate Tedesco